A few nice online fashion images I found:
A Bad Chinese Host
Image by GianCayetano
We’ve encountered this well-known "daw sya" Chinese Wedding host and an online blogger about fashion and etc.. yelling on our crew about the location of the projector screen. Mr. Chinese Wedding Host yelled on our crew saying different kinds of discouraging comments instead of saying his request in a nice manner. My wife went to the area where this Chinese host is yelling our people, my wife said, “we do not treat our crew like that, you can say it in a nice way, and in the first place they are my crew not yours, you do not have the right to give instructions to them. Now, if you have any concern you can say it directly to me and I will be the one to instruct my crew” said by my wife to this rude Chinese host. Chinese host replied, “You don’t want to mess with me GIRL!, You don’t know me!” My wife replied “You don’t want to mess with me either! And you don’t know me as well!, you should say it in a nice way and we do not treat our people the way you do. The rude Chinese host apologizes with a higher tone of voice “Well I’m sorry!” (with a nasty look on his face) my wife said, “Well, You are not sincere”, the chinese host apologizes to my wife but with a different tone of voice. The Chinese wedding host approached me that he already said sorry. He approached me and said, “I already apologized to your wife, ano siya luluhod pa ba ako sa kanya? She did not accept my apology ang daming nakadinig na guest”. Would you accept an apology that is not sincere with a nasty look on his face? he should apologize to our crew as well. He's worried that there are guests already in the area that heard the discussion, in the first place he's the one harassing our crew with inappropriate words and high tone of voice, he didn't even think of that.
We don’t know why those wedding coordinators are also scared and shaking when he gives orders. He even yelled the waiters instructing them to hurry up in serving the food, good thing that there is no waiter that has a courage to punch you in your face giving them that kind of attitude.
To you Mr. Chinese Wedding Host, We do not treat people the way you do. You yell at those suppliers where you’re not suppose to handle, Your the host and should stay as a host and leave the job to the wedding coordinators. In the first place, you’re not paying for their food even their salaries. Though the coordinators said that you’re a perfectionist at weddings.. you should not treat the people like that, you should not THREATHEN my wife beforehand “You don’t want to mess up with me GIRL!, You don’t know me” so what do you mean by that? We do not step on people like you do, Even if you have great achievements you should share it for those people who need it and you don’t need to say “Ta-tanga tanga ka” or “Use your common sense” words that can discourage them, Not all people are all intelligent as you do and stop being big headed. Masyado ata mataas ang tingin mo sa sarili mo. Mahirap yan pag bumaksak ka, Masakit :) .
Well all that I can say is you have an attitude problem Mr. Chinese Wedding Host.
There are many Chinese speaking host out there with a good attitude, I don’t know why clients booked you, baka di nila alam totoong ugali mo. If you have attitude problems or Psychological problems have it managed first before you handle weddings, it might end up a disaster.
If you want to know more about this Chinese Speaking/Singing Wedding Host. According to my research.. He’s part of DLSU, a PSYCHOLOGY GRADUATE??? at DLSU, a PROFESSOR.. and He’s a blind item blogger and creator of FASHION PARAK.COM , not the real name of the site though, you can easily find it out in the internet, wanting fans on his FB page to hit 2 Million readers.
For years of documenting weddings, I don't know that there is a host with this kind of attitude. I laugh also because he didn't even mention our studio or give us credits on those AVPs that has been viewed on the wedding day.
We don't care even if your popular or who you are, You will be in our A.H. list!
Be kind, nice, and down-to-earth to everyone, even under pressure. Specially if your in a once in a lifetime event like weddings. Everybody should be relaxed and happy from guest and even fellow suppliers.. always give the best wedding experience to everyone.
